Borrowing traits makes your life better

No one can be a neutral or an extreme.
Between two things, you tend to be standing at somewhere more or less than another, you cannot be in the middle. Believe Me

But, wait... what am I writing about?

Oh yeah!

I am talking about human traits, there are THREE: Extrovert, Introvert, an Ambivert. What I mean is, you cannot be neutral, but you can be one among these three. You can be an Extrovert. You can be an Introvert. You can be an Ambivert. The ambivert is so special, I am going to tell you soon. You might, naturally, be born with one specific trait; however, your trait sometimes is being hybridized. How come I know this? As mentioned, you cannot be a neutral or an extreme or stick with one specific trait, that's why people invented or combined their natural trait with the other new one. My case, I am an ambivert a person, whose trait half extrovert and another half introvert. Although I am born with this trait, I cannot be a hundred percent be an ambivert. Below will answer your questions which are popping up in your head. It's not complicated at all because things will change, society will change, people will change,..., so will I. If I do not change regarding the surrounded environment which constantly keeps changing, I would not be able to survive. SOUND REALIST! Lolz... it's NORMAL, it's TRUE, and it's nothing XD Once you are being taught by this kind of environment, you will know exactly how you should respond. You won't believe me unless you yourself experience it.  I just don't want to tell you because I have to continue my writing :-P Blah blahh ^^

Before continue reading, please look at my young ambivert adult enjoyed her evening time skateboarding in Phnom Penh City. Cool dehh! :D

Ambivert ME enjoyed Extrovert Time!

Although each trait has its own potential, you still have to borrow another trait to complete because things keep changing, the world is now globalizing, and communication is a key to success in your study, career, love, and your whole life. If you are an Introvert, you are anti-social and love alone time. What are you going to do if you want to be an entrepreneur, a diplomat, a communicator, a public relations, and many jobs that need human interaction? Therefore, refusing to borrow the other trait does not make sense to me. Through observation and experience sharing from some of my introvert friends who succeed in their goals are, mostly, borrowing Extroverts' trait; and vice versa.  Not based on Scientific, I CLAIM this.

However, sometimes, you don't even realize which categories you are in, you still don't know who you are. This might risk you in the future, although, I am going to write the risks of holding one trait in my next blog.

You might have read many articles about Extroverts, Introverts, and Ambiverts. But, here you are with me, you are destined to read mine xD This is just a share from a hundred percent Ambivert person for almost 20s (I really mean 20ssss xD) years.

I hope you can relate mine with yours because being an ambivert is not easy. Sometimes you want to socialize, another time you want "ME TIME", this fucking hard is. When these two times come, either of them is time for you to recharge. On the other hand, when these two times demand, it means that you are draining your inner peace and energy. Sometimes you don't want to talk until they find you are so arrogant, another time you want to talk until everyone gets annoyed. Sometimes you want are too friendly until other think you are flirting, and other times you are too polite and show too much respect to the other until considered as boring. Sometimes you want to help other; then it turned out you as their doormat or taking you for granted because you are too helpful. Sometimes you want to ignore those helpless people, but you feel you left them behind because you just cannot let them be like that even you have to risk yourself to help the less fortunate one. MOST AMBIVERTs are more likely SELFLESS. Ambivert's life is so complex because it seeks for balancing; however (as I mentioned above), you cannot be in the middle of the spectrum, you can be more likely ambivert towards extrovert (I call it "Extra Ambivert") or Introvert (I call it "Intro Ambivert"), and (I will publish about these two traits in my next blog).

It is so complicated as ambivert because only ambivert squad understand this.

I am an Extra Ambivert, so I borrow Introvert trait to survive in this changing environment. I now know who I am; however, I would not say my life is a perfect success. BUT, it's BETTER than before.

Share your trait with me. Okay?

What traits do you want to borrow?

Ambivert ME enjoyed Introvert Time!

Hey Mixed Squad, Good Luck!